Don't You Hate It When Part II

This is the second post to my "Don't You Hate It When..." reader participation post. ( The first post is here.) This is a popular issue.

• You step child shows up with clothes and shoes 2 sizes too small and you are going out to a function with them looking like that!


• Your husband and in-laws let your obese stepchild eat and eat and eat what ever she wants all day and then she comes back to your house and cries herself to sleep with a belly ache and wakes you up at 3 am to tell you she has to throw up and proceeds to do so on your NEW $200 dollar comforter set and favorite slippers! HELLO! This is why she is 8 yrs old wearing a size 16 in girls!


• You buy your step child new clothes or sneakers and they make it out of your house and into the ex’s for you to never see them again because one of her other 8 children has them on!


• When your stepchild comes to your house and steals and your husband doesn’t lift a finger to discipline the child after you caught her red handed!


• You can’t put your pajamas on and walk around the house or have a private conversation with your husband because the nosey information gathering (for the ex) child is lurking around YOUR house!


• You can't keep your plans or take your kids where you wanted to go because the ex couldn’t take no for an answer that he would pick the demon up next weekend!


• When your in laws treat your new baby and the stepchild better than your child from a previous marriage and your husband says nothing to them!


• When your stepchild gets in front of your in-laws and morphs into a loud mouth demon! Instead of the quiet serpent she is at your house.


• Don't you hate it when the ex-wife involves you (the new wife) and then doesn't like the way you handle it?? I really hate it that she keeps coming back for more support (which she gets) and continues to lay around, get fat, and not work? Then keeps sending e-mails nickel and diming for medical 1/2...$12 here and there...AND we have to deposit into
  her account because that is the way the agreement was made!!! We do her banking,
  too!!


• Your husbands ex has nothing good to say about you yet expects you to take care of the kids when they are sick while SHE sits at home (on our dime) because "it's not her day" to care for them.


• When the ex psycho makes friends with the (first) ex psycho (yes it's true) who hated each other with great vengence toward each other (the stories...) and then when the guy gets voluntary custody of one of the ex's kids 9 who's ADHD and ODD and has never in his life shown empathy (hurting animals burning the garage) (and becomes Obligee & Obligor for two sets of kids) that the two Psycho's become best friends to manipulate the whole system and use information on each visitation to "tag-team" you from both sides (which benefits them greatly) and to top it off then they both secretly report false physical child abuse because "privacy law allows annoymity" and you and your spouse spend two years defending accusations (clearly false and proven over and over again) yet because it's family law you never get back a dime of the money you had to spend on lawyers to fight all the spun poison (60, 000 dollars) ?
  
  Yeah ... I hate it when that happens.
  
  We just filed restraining orders.

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This is the end of Part II. If you would like to add to this with your own experiences, comment below and I will start accumulating enough for a Part III.