Relocation - From Maybe to Most Likely

Oh my gosh, oh my gosh, oh my gosh.  I've been talking about relocating being a possibility.  That "possibility" just moved up to "very likely" and the timing - within a few weeks!! 

If the job interview goes well on Friday, hubby will move back to our homestate within a week.  Our four kids, five dogs, two horses, and myself would follow within a few weeks.  I have to pack up our entire life, by myself, with no support from hubby, while caring for all of the above. 

I am either going to:  1) lose my mind, 2) binge eat and then need diet pills women make to lose weight, or 3) lose my mind. Oh wait, I said that already. Yeah, that's because I really expect to LOSE MY MIND!

We've still not said a word to my stepkids or the ex yet.  We won't until we are definitely moving.  No point in stirring things up with the ex or getting kids' hopes up (I'm assuming their hopes would rise up instead of plummet).