They Came. Oh my!

>> Monday, March 24, 2008

Well, the stepkids did come. Their mother didn't call their dad back at all. She called his mother back; not my husband, the father of her kids. Nevermind that he had called her several times and left a message about their kids coming over the next morning. Never mind he had called my stepdaughter's cell phone too. Does she bother to call him back about the kids coming to our place the next morning? That's a big NO. I don't know what kind of stupid thrill that woman gets out of having their father chase her with phone calls. It's quite juvenile.

And where was she during all of these calls? Out visiting in a snowstorm. Yup, snowstorm and she has the kids out unnecessarily on the roads until after dark. Not only that, on the way home they were involved in a spinout with cars in front of her spinning out of control and then her. With the kids in the car. Out unnecessarily in a snowstorm. We were told she almost hit a pole on sd's side of the car. Out unnecessarily in a snowstorm. Did I say that already?

Questionable.

Let's see...out in a snowstorm unnecessarily until after dark. Out in sports bars until morning hours with the kids. Out in an over 21 club with the kids to watch a band. These are the things the stepkids tell us about.

You know, if their father was to do even 2% of what she's done with the kids, she'd be all over him, insulting his parenting skills, and blaming him (us) for everything.

But she's THE MOM. Like that excuses it.

2 comments:

Unknown March 25, 2008 at 9:14 AM  

I don't know what kind of stupid thrill that woman gets out of having dh chase her with phone calls. It's quite juvenile.

And that is just what it is. She has him chasing her with the phone, and it gives her a thrill. It makes her feel as if he still wants her, it gives her "proof" that he still wants her, something solid she can show her friends, if she has any, how much her ex husband still wants to be with her, loves her, etc
It's a mental game. She should probably seek professional counciling as well.
That's my take on it anyway

Toni

Syn April 26, 2008 at 3:38 PM  

She needs to hang onto all the proof she can get in her make believe world I guess, lol. From what we've been told, she's still not dating anybody (13 years after dh left her) and is still hung up on him. The children's therapists actually wanted to counsel her at various points over the last decade but whenever that happens she stops taking the kids to counseling.

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