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Children's Bill of Rights

You are your child's most important teacher. Your child will learn from your actions. Act responsibly, act lovingly, talk to your child, and listen to your child. Hug your child. Tell your child that you love them. Act with dignity and respect so that they will learn dignity and respect for themselves and others. Reassure them that their other parent loves them also. Be honest with your child. If you can't be honest with your child because of something you have done, then maybe what you did wasn't in their best interests?

CHILDREN'S BILL OF RIGHTS

1. The right to be treated as important human beings, with unique feelings, ideas and desires, and not as a source of argument between parents.
   


2. The right to a continuing relationship with both parents and the freedom to receive love from and express love for both.
   


3. The right to express love and affection for each parent without having to stifle that love because of fear of disapproval by the other parent.
   


4. The right to know that their parents' decision to divorce is not their responsibility and that they will continue to be loved by both parents.
   


5. The right to continuing care and guidance from both parents.
   


6. The right to honest answers to questions about the changing family relationships.
   


7. The right to know and appreciate what is good in each parent without one parent degrading the other.
   


8. The right to have a relaxed, secure relationship with both parents without being placed in a position to manipulate one parent against the other.
   


9. The right to have both parents not undermine the other parent's time with the children by suggesting tempting alternatives or by threatening to withhold parental contact as a punishment for the children's wrongdoing.
   


10. The right to experience regular and consistent contact with both parents and to be protected from parental disputes or disagreements.

Children have the right to be kids.
Don't expect them to take care of you. Take care of yourself.

Children have the right to not have your anger at their other parent interfere in their own relationship with their parent.

A child has a right to have as much access to their father as they have to their mother.

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Potty Mouth

Well, dad is supposed to talk to his ex-girlfriend about their son's potty mouth while he was here last week. He mentioned it a few days ago but I have no idea if (or when) he plans to do it. I didn't ask.

Frankly, I don't expect anything to come of it on the other end. It never has before, not even when my stepson's behavior resulted in my kids going to the doctor, emergency room, or therapists. Maybe he'll have to drop a quarter into his swear jar. Oooh, that's discipline!

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Revenge

How many of us haven't dreamed up a good revenge for the conflict we go through as the "wicked stepmother"? Most of us don't go through with it. That would be childish and when you're dealing with so much childish behavior in a stepfamily/ex situation, who needs to add more of it? However, if you are looking for revenge stories, there's a site for you at RevengeLady.

The sweetest revenge for a stepmother is making a happy life with your husband. That seems to burn some ex's up more than any revenge you could ever think up anyway (not all ex's...there are some rational ex's out there). Being successful at something the ex wasn't seems to be the worst sin in some ex's eyes you could EVER do (whether ex-husband or ex-wife). Like you are doing it purposely just to get him/her. After all, it's all about the ex.

So, smile and know you don't have to resort to childish behavior to make a point. Your happiness is your priority and his/her worst nightmare.

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Men Can Have Babies?

OMG! I just saw the preview of an upcoming news segment about a pregnant man. I can't believe it! Will a man finally know firsthand what morning sickness is? What it's like to get huge and have ligaments stretching painfully and reminding you every time you moved? I don't see how they will be able to experience the pain of birthing a child out of your body unless they have female parts. To read more, check it out here.

Ahhhhhh...the segment just aired and the man who is pregnant was once a woman and had a sex change but kept the necessary body parts to get pregnant. Now I understand.

There seems to be a big controversy about this. I don't have any opinion of it. To each his - or her - own.

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